[Nancy Holloway]

Hi Kayla,

Labor and delivery can be a real shock, even when you think you are prepared. I’m sorry you’ve had such a rough time. Is she home yet?

Here are some suggestions to make things easier for you now or if she ever is hospitalized again:
1. Babies often go to the NICU right after birth is they have trouble breathing or have a buildup of a substance called bilirubin in their bloodstream, making them have a yellowish tint. What has the doctor told you about why he transferred her there?
2. If she’s still in the NICU, befriend the nurses caring for her. They will appreciate your interest and have a wealth of knowledge about caring for your baby and how the hospital system works. I hope you had the opportunity to hold your baby and rock her in the NICU.
3. Ask which nurse is in charge that shift and go to her. Ask to meet the Clinical Nurse Specialist for the unit and introduce yourself. If they don’t have one, ask to meet the nurse manager instead.Befriend either of them by praising the nursing care (assuming it’s good), and ask them any questions you have.
3. Ask for a social worker, who can guide you to a lot of resources. She may know of less expensive places to stay if you need rooms in the future. Sometimes the hospital has arrangements with a hotel for discounted rooms, if you tell the front desk staff you have someone in the hospital.
4. Breastfeeding crisis!! For immediate help with breastfeeding, ask to meet with the hospital’s breastfeeding specialist in. If there isn’t one, contact the community group LaLeche League and say you need help right away. LaLeche League is a group of moms who are committed to making breastfeeding successful. The nurse in charge should know how to contact them.
5. If she’s been discharged, send an thank you note to the unit’s nursing staff. The nurses really will appreciate it.

I wish you the best with your new little one!

Best wishes,
Nancy Holloway, RN