I have read that “wash your hair every other day” advice many times. I think that one is definitely falls in the “works for you, but not for me” category.
I have definitely cut back on highlights to save money and I only get pedicures for special occasions. I go without otherwise, because I don’t have the skill or the patience to DIY.
But I think your initial advice is perfect: “Beauty expenses are not necessarily superficial or trivial, so cutting back on them should be done as thoughtfully as with any other expense category.” Beauty standards create so much pressure for women – whatever makes us feel confident and prepared is not a luxury!
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